Unconditional Friendship...

In my experience I have witnessed various types of friendships. Many having not much to do with me, but here are some things I learned and believe about friendship! I realized that not everyone has the purest intentions, so it is wise to follow our intuition when it comes to anyone we share our time with. If we look back at any friendship we have shared - that stands out as a painful experience, I'm quite sure that the majority of us can say that we knew better, but held onto hope in this regard. It's wonderful to choose to see the best in people, but it is important to protect ourselves, too! Boundaries and distance are key when it comes to some of the more conditional humans.. What are some examples or symptoms of conditions?? Feeling obligated.. We are not obligated to put ourselves in a dangerous situation to prove our loyalty to someone! We are not obligated to treat certain people differently to prove our loyalty, either!! One thing I will not tolerate is a person expecting me not to be kind to another person just because they don't vibe. It is a toxic misconception for anyone to think it's essential to prove their loyalty by acting out of character! There are plenty of examples of an unhealthy and conditional friendship that I could elaborate on, but I believe it won't be necessary. As we know, my preference is to focus on positive aspects, of course while being aware of the shadows that are inevitable in this contrasting experience of life! That being said, I'd like to refocus on acknowledging aspects of a true and unconditional friendship! This is a subject I have much experience in! What is an unconditional friendship? I would like to define it as a true friendship that requires no specific conditions to thrive! That's it! Simply explained!! The most healthy friendships are products of love, authenticity and honesty! There should never be an instance where anyone should feel guarded about who they are. I have some of the most immeasurably best friends in my life! I am exactly who I am with them and they are exactly who they are with me! The friends that we never have to wonder what they're really thinking about us - are the unconditional wonders of friendship. If you find yourself feeling discomfort in a friendship - if you're questioning an intention or judgement, let me be the one to recommend this; distance yourself as necessary and focus on the friendships you can FEEL are true! Our intuition, emotional guidance is keen and if we are in tune with ourselves, we shall not be lead astray! We sometimes feel like we owe something to someone, but that is a result of "condition," my friends. It is okay to make your purest decision to do whats best for you - do it without guilt. If you don't act on your own behalf, who will? We all deserve to have the unconditional friendship experience! In fact, it is inevitable to happen to all of us many times over! We have several chances to thrive together in this lifetime! Allow it! It all begins within. Embrace your truest version of yourself and be magnetic!! Attract your vibe tribe! Attract your unconditional relationships by being unconditional with yourself! Love, be Love and be Loved!